Dear ABBY: I have been married to my second spouse for 10 a long time. Most anything is wonderful, but we have just one spot of conflict. It is about her daughter, my stepdaughter, who has developed from a sweet very little 9-yr-old into a wonderful 19-calendar year-outdated. The trouble is her apparel close to the household. She routinely wears a sports bra and panties about the residence (all-around me). I come across it distracting, to say the the very least. I have talked over it with her mother, but she sees nothing completely wrong with it, possibly because she dresses rather a great deal the exact same way. I simply cannot get my spouse to have an understanding of that what could be Okay for her is inappropriate for her daughter. What need to I do? By the way, I have never reported or carried out just about anything inappropriate, but I discover myself having a seem at her more generally than I should. Support! — STEPDAD WHO SEES IN TEXAS

Expensive STEPDAD: If you have not instructed your wife Directly that a attractive young girl parading close to in her underwear and a athletics bra is arousing, and you would favor her daughter dress extra modestly about you, you really should. And out of regard for you, your wife ought to reveal all those info to her daughter and remind her that she’s no extended a kid, and she should deal with up.